Living one day at a time

[Dr LOve]

Don't really know. It could have been something for her mom. Or her or me. She had some things written down on a note pad about b12 and anemic.
Guess I had a missed opportunity. I just should have said "what's ya looking at?"

[Yoyowife]

Okay H, since Sara is in New Orleans this weekend, I'm going to have to take her place and give you some tough love. You have to start talking to her and asking her questions. You have been with her long enough that you should not feel unconfortable about asking her what she is looking up on the computer. I think you missed an oppurtunity to find out what is going on with her physically and emotionally. Communication, Communication!!!

Just remember this whack with a 2x4 (maybe a wet noodle instead) was done because I care about you!

[Dr LOve]

ya ya ya,

Sorry Yoyo - Nobody can take Sara's place with the 4X4's
Now if ya want to play teacher and get out your ruler...I have been a bad boy.......
Ya I know I did blow it. I am talking more....so is she... but something is missing... (Sound familiar HFF).....

Later

I'm hot for teacher.............

[Yoyowife]

Yoyo,

ya keft out the "making out" on the pick up tail gate....

did ya get a hicey......

H

I decided to answer this on your thread and not hijack KLM's thread. LOL

No hickeys but a few smooches. I live in the country and it was very dark, so no neighbor close enough to see us. Ha Ha. You make me sound so bad. LOL

[hopeforfuture]

Ya I know I did blow it. I am talking more....so is she... but something is missing... (Sound familiar HFF).....

Sounds familiar, yes, but there is more than just something missing. There's still a lot missing for you. Primarily the physical stuff and secondly, better communication. I think you are doing really well keeping things moving along, but something still needs to happen to shake things up. Maybe not now, but soon.

In my situation, EVERYTHING seemed to be there with us. There was much intimacy and great communication. I'm still not sure what happened. I'm not sure what it is that Mo2C is looking for, but I believe it was right in front of her all along.

I don't think I really have a point here. Just saw you refer to me and wanted to let you know I was reading. I'm still not sure about this separation thing. It's good and bad. Good in that I've had a great time this past week, but bad for the same reason. I've become more detached that I ever have been. Deep down I would like to see us back together, but right now, I'm going to give her what she has asked for.

Good job with the not smoking.

[Dr LOve]

Primarily the physical stuff and secondly, better communication.

Hff,

I did not mean any disrespect... I do think you hit the nail on the head. Tonight I just found out that most of our savings are gone. W has been using then for us to get by. So I guess I will start working 7 days a week again. It's not really that bad. I go to work on weekends at 3:00am and work till about 8 or 9 am... I sleep by myself anyway so there is no real reason to stay in bed...
I was busy today around the house. Then later went over MIL house to prune her bushes. After I put the battery back in the mustang and was going to take it out for a ride but the battery was dead. So I had to go home and get some jumper cables. When I was returning wife pulled up with son. I told her what had happen and said "I hope the camper didn't burn up the battery" Wife said. "Oh no I hope not" so see there are allot of positives but like you said I miss the "physical contact". It has been over a year for me. (Less for her)...I have been having some very interesting dreams lately and they did not involve my W but someone we both know.
Ok enough of that. So it will not do any good having a talk now. We are trapped together until she gets a job.

[Dr LOve]

Ok here it is 3:45 am Sunday and I bet everyone else is sleeping.. Or just getting home...
I had to tell ya about the dream last night. I dreamed that I started smoking again. I was all panicky... I could not get the smell off of me and was disappointed in myself that I had to start over.

I was so relived when I woke up IT WAS ONLY A DREAM...