Woog, I know (and most of us here) know exactly how you feel. My dad put it best I think. He compares my sitch to grieving for a loved one who has suddenly passed away. It hurts like hell but we need to move on. Only time will slowly heal the wound. The problem is we think that the dead loved one will come back one day. The sooner we accept the loss, the better of we will be emotionally. I know it sucks BIG time.....for what it's worth we are not alone and have a whole bunch of cyber friends offering emotional support. I often wonder what it would be like if i did not stumble onto this site.
Skwalla hatch was slow on Saturday as the weather was actually too good and too sunny and the fish stayed down. Yesterday we got some cloud cover and the afternoon was fantastic. Nothing quite like a big trout hitting a big fly on the surface.
Why is she freaked out? Surely you are not the only seperated couple in your town. Your wife could have introduced lover boy as her friend. She isn't exactly runing on all cylinders right now.
The day here is great. Sunny, warmish and clear. I am still at home, I have the whole week off and it makes a difference. Enjoy yourself and get yourself "out of this loop". Things look better from the outside. I promise.
Just wondered what you meant by your wife is freaked out. What did she say/do that made you see she is freaked out? Just wanting info if you feel like sharing. Do you think she is getting a wake up call/reconsidering things or just generally freaked out?
And you shouldn't file unless you are sure you are ready for that step. That is inside you to decide. But the fact that you ask why you shouldn't tells me you are looking for a reason not to...that is a reason in itself maybe?
My friends wife was freaked out by meeting my wife with her "new boyfriend". She didn't know my wife was dating and didn't want my son to see his mom on a date.
Long night. My wife left the house at 7:45 pm and when I checked the garage at 3:45 am she was still gone. When I left at 6:00 am her car was there and the hood was still warm. I don't know where she slept last night but it was not in her own bed.
This is going to be a long week. By the way, I haven't talked to G27 in two weeks. I could use the attention and PMA she brought right now.
