Now I totally understand. He's just getting himself in deeper and deeper. Don't you think that she probably got pregnant intentionally? I have to think that he's not thrilled by this latest turn of events, he didn't want the responsibility he had, but I can imagine how that makes you feel.
Poor baby! I'm not sure either of them are capable of the commitment it takes.
GiGi!! I was thinking of you the other day!! So nice to see you post! and how wonderful you are a grandma! This is the D and SIL I met? great kids!! Congrats!
I think you are totally normal, and if you are not, neither am I or most here. Almost 6 yrs for me and there are times I get angry and want to spit nails! but for me its the residue of some of the awful financial things ex did to me- and the way I see him w/ my S. NOW wanting to be in his life, now that OW is fading. Cats in the cradle for sure.
If you are ever this way Gigi, give me a call Bethie and SE have my #.
It is a work in progress this whole D thing, not sure if and when it completely ends.
Please stay in touch!
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Karma - she's not very nice, is she? ExH with the South African prostitute, now fat and pregnant and roping him back into poopy diapers and the like at 53? Sounds like a special kind of hell to me. (I love my kids, and look forward to grandkids, but at 51 I try to picture myself going through all that stuff again - especially with a spouse who was going through it for the first time and really thought it mattered what kind of stroller you bought .......... YUCK! I'd be so depressed!!!!!!)
Yep, father of the year! That's what my X is going for. Too bad only one of them even speak to him! Maybe he figured it was easier to just have more kids then rebuild the relationship with the ones he already had!!
"It's not what happens to you, it's what you make of it." Zig Ziglar
Yeap the convertable. I went out and bought on of those in powder blue. She's my baby! Been driving her everyday for four years now. My treat to myself.
"It's not what happens to you, it's what you make of it." Zig Ziglar
Thought that would make you smile!