Woog, I understand why you think you are done, I am right behind you. I try to think how I would react if one of my best friends would lie and treat me with disrespect (which let's face it, this is what our WAS are doing). I would avoid them like the plague. We have kids and that is what is making me hang on. I would sugest that you hang on a little longer also. You owe it to them. I am not saying forever. Give her a month in her own apt. If things don't improve, we will both file on my birthday (June 11).
Just reading, I feel for you and your S, he is pretty young to encounter something like that. I understand not being able to forget. That is what made me mad when I found out H was still w/OW in March, he kept crossing lines that, in my mind, I knew should be "deal-breakers" for our M.
You love your wife. That is what makes this so hard. And I am guessing you would rather file now and try to end it before that love is converted into hate, or something close to that. B/C you hate what she is doing and what she has become, hate seeing her the way you see her now versus the way you saw her before...
I don't have any advice, I am in no position for that today. But I feel for you and I know you are hurting as much as you are angry. Just thinking of you.
Looks like June and July will be busy months. All kidding aside, I hope none of us file and things turnaround for us all. I know the odds are against us but the Funky Bunch may turn into the Lucky Crew.
Perhaps. I know I'm not the same person I was. I don't know whether or not that is a good thing. I just know that I am tired and I need to let go of this frustration because I don't like what it is doing to me.
Driving last night I wanted to call her and talk about my trip. To tell her how much I missed her and the kids. To talk about life. Unfortunately I couldn't call her. Couldn't tell her those things. I have lost my wife and my bestfriend. I miss my friend the most.
