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Husband, at least you're seeing opportunities that you can grab on to. So start grabbing on to them! The garden is a great idea.

Regarding the chiro, I would hope that he will soon teach you some exercises to strengthen your back and stretches that will allow your body more movement. My chiro has me do both of these (OK, I don't do them all the time), plus stretches to my shoulder because he's seeing my shoulder round a little and while it's not a problem now, he wants to nip it in the bud. He does adjustments and light massage to release tension in certain muscles. I love going to the chiro, always feel so darn good afterwards.

Can't go to the beach Saturday, but will be closer to your neck of the woods on Sunday (Richmond, Annie's Annuals big spring party).


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I see him again on Monday so I will ask...
Bodega Bay is having the fisherman festival this Saturday and Sunday... Never have been but sounds like fun

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Hi husband - just popping by to let you know I am thinking of you


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Saffie,
A really miss our early morning talks... you, me and andyv.

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I know - me too. My days are all over the place at the moment as the kids are all off school on their spring break.


How are you doing today???


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Husband,
I hope you and your son are having fun camping, sounds fun!




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Hey yoyo,
Camping is next weekend.
365 days in hell...........Weird thing, today I did not realize it until I was half way there... Son and I spent the day at the coast, lunch flying kites and digging for treasures.... Half way there I realized the 365 days ago after I found the pic's I headed out on this same road.... not planning on coming back...but.... I thought about my son and how he would never understand and would not know the truth.... I ended up coming home.... I said I would give it a year... well here it is a year later and I am still not happily married... Have I failed? Not really I mean I have come a long way... but things are not right. after the beach I went out to the bar...sat by myself...I could not bring myself to really get involved with the people there....why can't I just say s@rew it and be happy with my home life and cheat on my wife...in a way it would make things so much easier...W has not been called yet for a second interview....she has been so nice. I mean everything up to coming short of being man and wife.... I WILL NOT GO ANOTHER YEAR.... if she does not have a job soon WE NEED TO GO TO RETRO or it is over. I have lost not only my marriage but I am losing my love for her. I don't hate her... even though I feel I should. But I can't honestly say I love her any more... maybe it time for me to say I love you but I am not in love with you...

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husband, having just followed your sitch for a few weeks, have you come out and told your W what you miss? If so, when was the last time?


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