This is so hard. I am a hard driving salesman in a highly competetive industry and I rely on control of my customers and quick results. I have no control here. I heard her lying to a friend about today's events and arguments on the phone making me the fool. This really bothers me and I confronted her about it.
Every time she goes out I don't ask where she is going nor where she has been yet when I was out last night she told me exactly where i was at what time. I asked her how she knew and she said she would not reveal her sourses. I think either she was following me or she had me followed. UNREAL! She thinks I am seeing someone else I am sure, this is not the case and will not be for a long time.
I can't figure this stuff out. I have decided to go to my room and relax with a book (The Good Divorse) and just stay out of the lying drama for the evening. Thanks for your support.
Well that sucks. What do you think you will do? Do you have any support off board that you can contact?
I've suspected that my H reads my threads but I can't say 100% sure. I still post, I state that facts. If this is the method he wants to use to hear what I have to say then that's his choice to hear the hurt and pain he has caused by his actions.
Your W reading what other people have to say about her actions may be an eye opener, it may make her brace up even more against you. Maybe she'll even post here too. It's happened before.
Stay strong. Chin up.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
Sorry to hear about this turn of events. Snooping on your posts and your going out is truly despicable, but you can't control it. You only control your reaction to it. What are you going to do? I wish I had some answers for you, but I don't. All I can offer is my sympathy and best wishes that you deal with these latest matters in a healthy way. She treats you badly, yet wants to know what you are up to. I suppose that is typical for MLC.
Hi Tree! Thinking of you. Sounds like you are looking hot in your new outfits! I wont say anything more except that you've come a long way in a short space of time, and you should be proud of yourself.
Dear Tree's Wife. I don't know you, but it sounds like you are hurting and I'm really sorry about that. Tree really does want the best for you. He's been posting here trying to figure out a new way of having a relationship with you, and how to accept that at this stage in your relationship it appears you both want different things. Sometimes that is really hard.... I understand (and I think Tree understands too) that sometimes you've got to make hard decisions to be true to yourself, even if it hurts the people you least want to hurt.
I hope that you and Tree will both find happiness.
Thanks for all your support. All my friends and support tell me I will know when it is time to pull the plug and i think the time has come. I really don't deserve this and deserve to be with someone nice that wants to be with me. I need to start to look for this person and start very slowly and move forward. I am going to see my L tommorrow about separate living arrangements. It's time.
I need a good dose of encouragement to get things back on track. Maybe it was the pressure of the Easter weekend that got things going in the wrong direction?
I wont say anything more except that you've come a long way in a short space of time, and you should be proud of yourself.