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Thank you for responding.

well my son is 15 and my daughter is 12. We have been married for 16 years. As for what was happening I guess I would have to say that she said that she has been unhappy for seven years and that she said she waited to see changes in me that never came.

Although I am the one who brought her to Turkey so she could meet the people that she had started talking to online. I had become more involved in her school. Just everthing thing that I could think of to be supportive of what she wanted to do.

But come to find out this has been going on for quite a while and I just can't believe that she is willing to give up her family and start all over again.

I have been honest with the kids from the begining of all this and my son knowing all that he knows now chooses not to talk to his mother because he thinks what she has done is wrong plain and simple. He chooses to go to the next base with me and as for my daughter she says that she wants to go but I can tell that she is having a hard time with being the only girl in the house now. I have done all that I can do to help my daughter with this but I can still see lingering effects.

I am afraid that when I go back to visit my wife that she will try and do some sort of paperwork that will keep the kids there with her. My son told me that if that happened he will run away from her,this scares me to death as Missori and Idaho are so far apart. I will set him up a wallet with phone numbers and phone cards and some money to help him if it come to that but I really hope it doesn't but now I can't be sure because of the whole money thing.

I will post my plan here in a short while so I can get some help fine tuning it.