We had to have the GAL and other learned techniques pounded into us. Your X, like mine, like so many, didn't wish to be happy
Too true Happy- I remember reading DB before even coming here and thinking GAL??? but my GAL had become mostly S and ex! The silver lining in this was gettng re-aquainted w/ my friends, who I think I prolly took for granted for awhile, and started going out w/ them again and remembering why I loved them so much!
If our exs do not want to make themselves happy and keep running after that elusive happy pill well so be it.
Have a great week Happy, thank you for visiting , you are def one of my fav people here ! ( more so then that Bethie chick lol)
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
I remember the feeling of pure panick when my Ex decided he wanted to come back, PANIC, I thought that's what I wanted. But the feeling of having to make HIM happy was so overwhelming that when it didn't work out I was so relieved
Geeze Friend, I cant imagine how nerve wrecking that would be! I never had the chance of course lol but thinking back , it must of been really scary for you! To be responsible for one persons happiness? No thanks! Do not blame you at all for being relieved.
Wonder if they will ever learn they have to make themselves happy? I think my ex is now realizing it, but dosnt know how to achieve it.
Have a super week Frieind, again, its so nice to see you post, its nice that we all keep in touch after all we have been through!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
Have a great week Happy, thank you for visiting , you are def one of my fav people here ! ( more so then that Bethie chick lol)
You were probably thinking that I would miss this but guess what? I saw it!!! You will be paying sister girl!
Anyway, where was I? Oh friends. I know that I too cut out my friends in an effort to put everything into saving Atlanta from burning. Besides that, I was so afraid that if they knew what he was up to they would never foregive him, because of course we were going to striaghten this all out!!! Well we didn't, but my friends were the ones that were their for me every step of the way. They took me kicking and screaming to the Lawyer, took me out for dinner on my anniversaries & Birthdays and went to court with me. What was I thinking? I should have known that he had already been gone for a LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGtime but my friends were always there! Yes, they like for me to abuse them as well..
