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Thanks Peace..I KNOW it will all be ok..better than ok/

Bright,

Yes, it is crazy how similar H's can be. i think that is why I stay here. Because it helps me think I am not insane.

Have fun with the girls..THat is what works for me!!!
Hang in there. You are really doing well.

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Sending you a {{HUG}}

A Veltines Shmalentines (Thanks Valentine \:\) )

and a much needed

LIP QUIVER ICON!

ARGH!

We'll un-stick....but we must not hurry the process.

But then I say.....well isn't it just easier when you rip the tape off???? Instead of slowlyyyyyyyyy tearing your hairs out one by one???

BLEH!

Only a unthinking creep would file on Valentines Day! Hmph! Was this his way of punishing this day forever for you! HA! Or....was it his way of keeping you his Valentines forever?

Dumbass in either scenario if you ask me.

Kisses

Jeanette


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A sign of someone who is not sensitive to anyone elses feelings. A sign of someone out for himself only.

But then again we knew that already. lol.....


Bomb 3/31/2007
Moved out 04/22/2007
Moved back in 06/11/2007
Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007


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Ha! jeanette, you always help me laugh about the crazinesss...

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Was this his way of punishing this day forever for you! HA!


Ya think???

Valentine's day..why can't we love everyday ..why does it have to be such a big production...I LOVE MYSELF DAMMIT!!!!!!!!


Bright , that is right!!! I try to refocus and not worry about it But COME ON!!!!!!!

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An angel says, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice."

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Kiki, truer words were never written!

Coming from a chronic worrier like myself,that says a lot!

You're doing great...you STBXH is a selfish poo-poo head. You already knew that...

Need to look out for your and your D...don't fool yourself that he will be looking out after her...at least not for the time being.

Glad you love yourself...sometimes that is a hard thing to do...

Smooch!
Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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THat is right Vali! I use to worry alot. But really what's the point?

I decided I have to look oout for D7 and I. That is what I HAVE to do.

I figure, If H sincerely cares for me then he will understand..right???

We will see.


I just talked to my daughter;s soccer coach. Very nice strong woman. I am just getting to know her and she gave me the biggest compliment.

She would like to set me up with her husband's partner. She said so many nice things about me. THis is from a person I barely know.

She asked me when I was getting divorced. I told her I was hoping not to. She asked startled ..you want to be with him still???
She said she doesnt like the way he talks to D7.

She doesnt like the way he talks to me.

H e has a chip on his shoulder and he is nice to her but she is married to a gigantic guy. 6'5..and muscular. My H admires that.

She said all this and she doesnt even know either one of us.

I mean very casual acquaintance. I found this to be intersting.

H still has not called d7.

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Isn't it nice to hear how others around us perceive us?

So what are your plans for tomorrow with D7?

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Hi Grace, My lovely (I do love her)lawyer has set an appt at 500pm. tom. it is ok though. It will be at a dunkin doughnuts.

D7 and I baked cookies today.

WE are going to go to the softball practice and have dinner together afterwards.

It will be a good day.

My kids at school always make me feel special.

It IS crazy how we are perceived . Or better yet how I perceive things.

What are you going to be up to?

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Interesting how coach wants to set you up
i find hope in that
I know your still standing..
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow
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