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Just a quick update. Busy at work.

Had to take FW to the emergency room on Sunday. He ended up having an emergency appendectomy Sunday evening after spending most of the day in the emergency room.

He got to come home late Monday evening. I stayed with him at home today until lunch and then had to come to work to finish up some stuff.

He's still in quite a bit of pain, but they've given him good drugs! LOL!

Otherwise things are going really really well between us. Hard to explain the subtle differences from before, but it's a good change.

Talk later!

BFM


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BFM:

Glad things are still looking up! Look forward to your posts and hearing positive things! Hope FW is feeling better!

God Bless!

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Sweety, I really hope FW is doing well, you are so strong ! Take care of yourself and find some time for yourself in all of this !

Love you xxx


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Hi BFM,

Just checking to see if all is well .....probably very busy with your life, FW and kids. It sounds like a great way to live life !

Take care sweety xxx Thinking of you, always ...........


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HI BFM,

Glad to hear FW is doing well. So happy for you that things have worked out.

I am not so strong or lucky. I think I have had enough. Funny I think most MLCer here disappear. My H never has really left. He is pretty much trying to pull off the "I want them both" idea he told our MC a year ago. I think I must totally disengage.


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Hey guys,

things are going pretty well here lately. I had my elective surgery on Monday. A little sore, but overall doing well.

My S5 is the sweetest little guy EVER! He was SOOO worried about me at the hospital. Almost afraid to touch me once they got the IV's and things in. Then this morning my car door was frozen and I was pulling on it pretty hard (a no no for me right now). S5 yelled at me and said, "Mommy, the Dr. said you aren't supposed to pull on anything really hard right now! Stop, don't hurt yourself!" So I did and went inside to get FW to open the door for me.

FW is doing well. Got the "all clear" from his Dr. to do whatever he wants now after his surgery. Just in time for him to take care of me \:\)

Friday we went out to dinner and HOWAD walked in with some friends. I didn't actually see her since my back was to the door and she got sat on the other side of the restaurant from us. We were almost done by the time she got there anyway.

Then, good story, as we were driving away from the restaurant to go shopping just a few minutes after seeing her a Covenant Transport truck pulled around our vehicle, slowed down, basically cutting us off and pulled into a rest area right in front of us. I don't know how many of you follow the Charlyne Cares newsletters or read anything on their website, but they have a big section about Covenant Transport trucks and how their trucks have been signs to people standing for their marriage that they need to continue standing or that they are a sign that God wants their marriage to work etc. Anyway, I noticed the truck right away and FW did not know the story of the Covnenant Transport trucks so I told him.

Funny thing, I've never seen one of those trucks before in my life. Didn't even know that they were around here and we see one together right after seeing her. Just reinforced to me that God is working in our lives.

We ended up having a wonderful night together. FW bought me lots of good stuff from Vic's Secret and then I had fun modeling for him later

Hope things are well for you guys.

BFM


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Sounds fantastic BFM. I am glad to see both you and FW are recovering well.

I have yet to see a Covenant truck but I am sure that He wants me to stand. \:\)


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BFM,

you sound wonderful....the strong and cheerful woman I have grown to know over here !!!

I hope your recovery is swift and that FW pampers you !

I read about those covenant trucks all the time on their website, I'm afraid that they don't have them over here... \:\(

BUT.....I once saw a CONWAY truck here....figured that was a sign ! ;\)


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BFM:

You are such an inspiration! I'm keeping my eyes open for a Covenant Truck!

Thank you for continuing to post your updates....they give me hope!

I'm happy for you and FW.

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bfm, I was wondering if/when you think you might move over to Piecing? Do you feel like you're there yet? Are you staying in the MLC forum because this is where all your friends are, or do you feel that you might jinx things by making that move?

I guess mostly I'm wondering how people know when they've actually made the transition to piecing when dealing with a MLC?

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