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#1293161 12/12/07 03:18 PM
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I was on this site quite a while ago and with the help of all of you, I manage to get my head straight. I am now involved with a woman who might think she is in a MLC. I told her all about this forum and how this community is filled with knowlegdable folks who are filled with info to help.
I am trying to get her to tell her story to you all, knowing the feedback would be positive. Please, if anyone can help her cope with what shes going through,Let me know through this post and Ill have her write her story.

Thanks. \:\)

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Thanks. Now how do I get a hold of her. Or should I just go and look at all her posts?
What would be the best way to approach this?

Its been a while and I don't really remember how to surf this site

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She posts all over but has a thread in Separated.



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Originally Posted By: xrdtrider
Thanks. Now how do I get a hold of her. Or should I just go and look at all her posts?
What would be the best way to approach this?

Its been a while and I don't really remember how to surf this site


I remember you xrdtrider.

What is it you want to know?

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xrd,

If your new woman thinks she may have a problem, then she should go see a professional therapist to work through her issues. That is how one copes with their problems.

At best, any person who posts to this board can give you one story - their own. What may hold true for one, may not hold true for another.

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I agree with imp.

Further, I don't think most MLCers actually think they're in MLC when it's happening...but that's just my opinion.

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Thanks for the replys. She has done all the tests that are avaliable and results came back positive. She feels that something is wrong with her and that things are not the same with her body. She knows something is going on and can't put her finger on it. I told her all that my Xw went through and how she was so oblivious to it. Denied everything and never accepted the fact that she was changing. My new person is not so shallow a

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This is certainly a different angle. I wonder if it is different if you know it is happening?

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sorry, i hit the wrong key and BOOM off it went to post.

I was saying that XXXXX is not as shallow as Denise was, and is quite concern as not to hurt the ones she loves just because she's going through this.

I will check other reasorces and see what kind of information I can get from it.

Thanks and I'll keep in touch.

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