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Sorry Sandi. I had to reply to that ignorant statement above...I won't disrupt your thread anymore, though!

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Originally Posted By: amyc
I suppose you are one that thinks men cheat because the wife is somehow lacking. Give me a break.


erm... most marital books, etc. would suggest that is true, but is not gender specific.
Most of them would say that one spouse is tempted to cheat, because they are "lacking" in something from their spouse.

ie: "their spouse is somehow lacking".

That's not to say that the infidelity is somehow their spouses "fault", or that the cheating spouse was somehow "forced" into it, etc.
Yet, there does seem to usually be some kind of "lack" involved.
Whether that be attention, admiration, frequency of sex, or...


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But I feel that I need to separate the two of you here...lol.
I walk away from most disagrements, let people live/think as they see fit.

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hahahahaha


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hahahahaha


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There ya go....."live and let live" a lesson I had to learn a long time ago....


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No problem here AmyC.....


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My "ha-ha's" don't seem to fall in the right places.


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SOMEone's frisky tonight...


(or maybe that's just me ;\) )

blahhh.. colds are rotten.


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Originally Posted By: AmyC
But isn't it funny how so many men are tempted away from their wives BY other women.


Well, most men aren't going to be tempted away from their wives by other men. Not that there's anything wrong with that \:\)


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