Hi, I took a break from the boards, and I wondered how some of the people who were doing who I haven't seen posting recently - I was thinking of Holly and Valeria, but doubtless others will come to mind. Any news of them?
I know some people change their names because of security isssues, so I understand if you don't want to identify yourself in that case.
I talk with Holly and she is doing well. She seems calm and assured that things will work out. He D date is coming up and her H has retreated into silence.
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing
I spoke to Holly this weekend. I hope she will post soon because she has been an awesome example of a loving and kind wife to TJ. She handled herself perfectly during the wedding... I am so proud of her!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Val was on the boards a month or so ago. Last I heard, her H was acting crazier than ever and she was wanting the D to be over with once and for all. She was at a point where she wanted to get far away from him. But I think during all this, he had reached out to her a few times in desperation. He's messed up, and she's moving on... as far as I know.
Holly... I miss her, too.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
Hi all, I am fine. I had a busy summer, with internet interuption that got me out of the habit of being on the boards. I am doing fine. TJ has made some very bold steps towards me, but as of yet the D is not called off. TJ could use some good karma and prayers. His Mom has gone downhill very quickly, and her organs are begining to shut down. His Dad has begun Hospice, and is supporting his wife and fighting for her needs. He has 3-9 months to live himself. He is very courageous. I am proud that he still calls me his daughter. My D22 became Mrs. M. and is now MD 23 (married daughter and a birhtday!). She and her H are now in North Carolina where she is teaching. The wedding was beautiful and TJ and I got along very well. If you want to see wedding pictures, it is:
Search: Julie and Pete Photographer: Kelly (last name) password: JP2007.
TJ told me I was beautiful and he came alone.
Since then ups and downs, but I am hanging in there.
I took a spiritual retreat that helped alot. Lots of time, sunshine and silence.
Cheers, Hoooooly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
