Hello-- Happy Friday- I'm just doing a quick check in to say that things are still going really well in my situation.
We've started going to a new church that is very contemporary in regard to music and has a great message every week. We feel like after three other churches, we've finally found the right church "home".
My H started a Men's program at church last night and from what he said after one session, I think this is going to be great for him.
Snodderly and Sting- if you are still checking in, can you email me at Buster925@gmail.com? They closed my Yahoo account due to lack of use and I lost my contact info. I'd like to send you some more details and a new pic of the kiddos.
For everyone else-- if you've decided that you want things to work out with your spouse, hang tough- it can happen- but it sure is a lot of hard work, tears, doubt, etc.
Thanks for the encouragement. My H has been in his MLC for over 3 years now, and although there are huge improvements, he still doesn`t think he wants this M. He was supporting me while I earned my degree, now waiting for me to get a decent job, then he`s leaving. So he says.
We get along great, he still has his moments, although they are fewer then before, I learned to walk away and stay calm. I was hoping that since he`s hopefully near the end of his "MLC", I could hang on a little longer. I asked him not to push me out of my house and I will consider a D when I`m financially able to support myself. There is no intimacy between us. He doesn`t seem interested in me.
He thinks he doing the right thing by me by allowing me to remain in my home. He then can walk away with a clear conscience.
WN, I'll drop you a note this evening. I'm glad you returned for a bit. Sounds like your life has been a busy one and I'm very happy to see things are progressing--slowly but surely.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thanks for checking in. Great to hear from you and that things are going well. The church sounds like a good one -- another piece falling into place for you and your family!
