Chat with OPs spouse?

[runningoutoftime]

So she googled "divorecebusters"... then poked around this website for a while in the MLC and Going Dark threads. Then she googled (get this): "how to stop a divorcebusting spouse"

Ohio Mark,
That is a hoot!!!!!!! How FUNNY!!!!!

And you are so wise... when you look at it closely DBing isn't necessarily for the marriage (although it's probably the best chance for reconciliation) it's actually for the LBS spouse to help heal, grow, move on, forgive... and if the circumstances go that direction, piece together a broken marriage...

[lester]

"how to stop a dbing spouse". that's rich.

Hey how would you all feel if I set up a chat server? I've been thinking about it and if I can get Michelle's tech people on board it would be even better. Could get it up in a few days on my computer. the traffic here isn't heavy enough to crash my server and we could have "live" conversations.

[lester]

"how to stop a dbing spouse". that's rich.

Hey how would you all feel if I set up a chat server? I've been thinking about it and if I can get Michelle's tech people on board it would be even better. Could get it up in a few days on my computer. the traffic here isn't heavy enough to crash my server and we could have "live" conversations.

[lester]

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[LL44]

H looked at engagement rings 2 months ago. Hmmm...Lovin' what these aliens google...........

And yes, they canNOT take DB'ing from us, its our to keep.

CHAT CHAT CHAT!

[lester]

I don't mind setting it up. Don't get me wrong I love these forums but sometimes we do more chatting than posting and it'd be nice to have like a lounge so to speak.

[Ohio_Mark]

Go ahead and set it up, if it's not a huge inconvenience. And I agree, lots of chat going on, and a BB is not the best forum for that.

[saffie]

I think that's a great idea Lester!!!

Saffie

[lester]

well let me look around and see what software will work best. Maybe it'll be another GAL to get my mind off stuff:)

[lester]

Hey y'all I've taken the advice and let it all sink in and the question of why do it still comes back. The why is to try to end my misery quicker but you know what? I'm giving way too much focus to this. This A is not worth my time so why waste it?