It is sad to have to meet this way, but I am grateful. Today it has been difficult to keep my cool, but I am going to work on it. It is scary to feel out of control. The really sad thing is that I thought we were really over the hump and everything would be smooth sailing for us. Now this. The anger I feel inside is a little frightening. Thanks for the insight.
It is sad to meet this way but I am grateful. IT has been an emotional roller coaster today and I don't like feeling out of control. I am going to work on keeping my cool, maybe tomorrow will be a little better. Thanks for the insight, and the advice.
V I am so sorry to that you are feeling this way. I am so sorry that you have to go through this right now.
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and I will be praying for you to find the strength you will need to make it through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007
Thanks for the hugs and prayers I need them! It has been a little better today, although he is still not home ( not by his choice). I talked to someone today who told me to not a llow myself to descend into his madness. He did this to himself and I am trying to take the advice that I have received here to try to take care of myself. I just don't know what to do. I don't work outside the home so I am here just thinking and I don't know if that is a good thing. She called the house 5 times in a row this morning. I told her she was pathetic and hung up on her. It wasn't a nice thing to say but I have a lot of anger inside. I guess she can't get a hold of him so she keeps calling here. Now where do I go from here? I never got a chance to read the books available here and maybe that would be a good place to start. I found this site by grace I think! I really had never heard of divorce busters before I found this on the internet. Is the effort to save a marriage worth all the pain, that is what I am wondering right now. I think I would be in pretty good shape financially for awhile but I haven't worked in 15 years and don't know where to begin with that. I don't feel mentally or physically able to go out right now. I have been battling a case of bronchitis and I think that just adds to the depression right now. I think I am rambling here but I really appreciate knowing someone out there is listening. Thanks again for the prayers and hugs
Husband is still gone. I am in a state of shock still, I can't do anything or feel anything except anger. The only peace I get is when I take something and sleep for a couple of hours. Thats about as long as I can stay asleep. My heart goes out to everyone on this board.
It is good H is gone right now. He has so much work to do on himself. I know this is tearing you apart, but it is probably best you don't see him right now. You need time away to heal and process.
I hope you are trying to take care of yourself by getting more sleep and eating. I hope your kids are doing better also.
Of course you feel anger, he has betrayed you again. You deserve to feel anger. The first month my H disclosed his affair all I could keep on saying was that I wanted to "chop his gonads off".
We are here for you.
Luv Goal
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"
It is a slow process but hun you are in the right place for support.Just pour your heart out here and we will life you up, What are some things you would like to see happen for you ,just for you?
Time right now to think about that most important person YOU-
You need to take care of yourself just to be prepared to stand for your marriage and help your H/
Love,Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
Violets, your situation sounds like mine in reverse my wife got inivolved with her boss back in Febuary after her father passed. I called him and let him have it and told him that he was taking advavntage of someone in a depression. By the way he went out of town this week also and my wife left for the weekend. how ironic. she just turned 40 and he is in his 50's. what you are talkinig about is really hitting home for me. I hope you find peace, I can't help feeling for you.
