. My wife said I was no good, but she could not say why She was leaving tonight to be with some other guy She said she痴 unhappy and I made her so. I asked her how I did this and she didn稚 know
My wife is a nut and I need to detach She left me tonight and the door I did latch She is unhappy and her heads in a fog But I知 doing just fine watching T.V with my dog.
In the morning I値l pack up all of her stuff I値l pack it up in the back of my old pick up truck I値l drive across town to the other man痴 house On his driveway I値l dump it (Ever her really nice blouse)
As I leave I値l be smiling and looking at him. The chances he値l be happy are pretty slim. She will now be there twenty four seven. He痴 going to wonder what happened to his little heaven.
My wife is a nut and I need to detach She left me tonight and the door I did latch She is unhappy and her heads in a fog But I知 doing just fine watching T.V with my dog.
After a while I know she値l be back. The Om will kick her out of his sack The OM will wise up And wonder what went through his head. He値l wake up one morning and kick her out of bed. On my door she will have to knock Because when she was gone I did change the lock.
She will want to come back but I値l say I don稚 now why You made unhappy and that is no lie. We could have talked and worked these things out. But you had to leave for him and that is no doubt.
My wife is a nut and I need to detach She left me tonight and the door I did latch She is unhappy and her heads in a fog But I知 doing just fine watching T.V with my dog.
If I let you back you値l promise one thing. You will keep those vows that came with that ring. And when you are unhappy to me you値l come talk And together we will converse and go for a walk.
Together we can come over this thing We値l start a new life, really start living So we kissed and we hugged and I went to my car. And I hid the phone numbers I got at the bar.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I told my W this morning "thank you for bringing me clients, but I can't do any more free favors and I need to charge the loyal clients a discount so I can recuperate my time and expenses...." this is regarding my artwork..... then she started getting defensive and said "well then stop doing the work" and I said "it's not that I want to stop, it's that it is killing me when I keep doing free stuff for your friends that are my clients too", she basically doesn't grasp what doing good business is all about...and I can't reason with her...
So I started getting upset, angry, but instead of lashing out at her and pointing the finger, I brought up therapy. I would normally get all heated over something like this, and I would bring up all the problems we have/had, but instead I told her..."So when are we going to therapy?"
She tried to avoid the issue...
I repeated: "If you are serious about our M and want to prevent wheat happened from happening again...we are going to therapy. When do you wanna go?"
She said "with what money? I just bought food...blah blah blah.."
That's what she does when I bring up a serious topic that centers around the rest of our lives together.... I told her "I spend X amount each month from my job for insurance. We only pay $20 for the first 3 sessions. When do you wanna go?"
She said something else that went in one ear and came out the other. I just left for work and said something to her about needing to work on our problems with therapy.....
I know she is avoiding.....but I am not. I'm giving her the opportunity to work on our M or I am filing for separation. I haven't got to the separation part yet....but I am not playing by her game....she's stalling and avoiding, and nothing has really changed in my M.
Also, thank you all for those lyrics, now I have something to sing to....and add some "twang" in it....
Last edited by sol1696; 05/23/0701:00 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
I am setting up some counseling appointments for me and my wife. My wife will be invited to go, and I will schedule them on her days off.
If she won't go, I will. I need some clarity about being ready to leave my M if my W will not open up and tell me that she wants to work on the M, and not have me around to simply support her if she doesn't love me.
She is playing "nice"...and maybe all I need to do is nothing and just work on myself like I been told many times. I just hate this stale-mate.
Any thoughts?
Last edited by sol1696; 05/23/0707:52 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
Hey Sol, sorry I didnt get back to you last night. Call me tonight dude...
Ian
Ian, I got in a slump after work....I'll give a call though....after wife goes to work if its not too late.
I don't know why but I am getting in a depressed state over this whole thing. I am going for my own therapy soon, next week. I will invite wife along, maybe she will go with me, but I can only hold a PMA for so long.
Reality has a way of creeping up and getting you down...
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
I think it's a good plan to go see the C with or without W. Hang in there Sol!