Quoting jethro: So, I'm worried about her, but it's her thing to deal with...nothing I can do except offer to help here and there.
I'm sure you are helping her by just being you, epecially with all the positive changes you have made. A fun night out will be a good stress release too, or at least a positive distraction. And doing something that will engage her, that's good thinking, Jethro!
Have a great time! I'm off to boy scout camp with my little sweetie (and 42 other boy scouts/cubs/beavers - yikes! ) until Sunday morning. Then I trade off kids with H, to spend the rest of Sunday with my other little sweetie!
Sorry I haven't been by in a while. It's been a wild week. Started last Sunday when the bb finally changed by username and lost all my posts prior to 2pm on the 19th. Which that last post was here? Since you didn't get to see it I was letting you know you, family and sis were in my prayers. Glad to see her tests were negative.
Anyway from there two nights at a revival, one night in the ER and last night dinner w/H. So here I am trying to catch up.
Saw the post about the sermon being on forgiveness. God has His ways of letting us know He is w/us, doesn't he?
Hey Jethro! Just got caught up on your thread. WOW! You must have found something deep inside you to go through these R talks as calmly as you are. It seems you two both avoided the R talks for the wrong reasons. Maybe this lag time allowed you to compose your questions and make the talk work. I'm glad your W and you are so open. Are you in pain? This thing would be ripping me up. You are probaly in alot better place with yourself than I am. Your W's 32, mine's 37. You seem to gotten pretty wise through all of this, more than your age lets on. I've noticed that my gray is really starting to come out and the top is thinning becasue of all the stress. I think that you need to find a real good C. Start looking and don't run to the first one you see. I think I've found a good one for the W to see. And it was a rough process. I think you need a teacher to help guide both of you. You both are so drained by this that your doubting as to what the goal is. Find some one to help. Take care. Find a way to recharge.
) until Sunday morning. Then I trade off kids with H, to spend the rest of Sunday with my other little sweetie!