Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
I suport RCR's post, I don't believe a MLCer can necessarily stop. Nor do all have any idea of what they are doing and why they are doing it. Evolving, I can understand why and am supportive of you. Thank you for stopping back in and letting us know how it turned out. I recall , when I was still speaking with my then seperated w, her inability to recall any conversation or any of actions / inactions for a 6 month period of time. It was completely blank as far as her memory. That period also included unreal accusations etc. to the point I did not feel safe. I haven't spoken to her in over three years, for self protection (I have no idea of her stability), so I somewhat understand what you've said. However, I also understand, her bizzare behavior was not something she was in control of nor understood. Former mutual friends over the years have validated that understanding. RCR has listed a few people that have shared their experience from the other side. If you have not had the opportunity, please try to look up what they've had to say of their experience in MLC. May help you understand a little better. Best of luck Evolving, again, thanks for stopping in.
I'd also side with Jazz's post. They know how to obey traffic laws, they know how to act in front of their new friends, as I've stated before, I think they will rape and pillage till their options run out. then they come out of the " tunnel"
