The best thing you did yet, kicking om out. Your H has kept ow out of the picture, you have got om out of the picture now keep it that way. In my sitch, which I know you have followed, my exW would not keep OM or men out, she continued dating and seeing me too. Now I have found someone else, she is mad at me and the chance for reconciliation is slim to none. You know what, even with my ex accusing me of two timing, I found out today that she has been seeing someone else and talking to them alot on the phone. That was the last straw for me. I guess I'm telling you that if you want it to work with your ex, you and him must at all cost keep others out of your lives.
I'm proud of you for doing what you did. God bless you.
