I posted to Zoo this morning that she needs to move so we can have this huge party over here.
I told David last night I wanted him to have some of the water that is going around. I made some sort of comment about hoping he was thinking of coming home before long and he asked if that would be a bad thing? I said absolutely not!
I wish I KNEW how to find a good C, geeze the one we saw was almost the same as worthless. At least in terms of reading what a lot of people post that their C has them doing or is telling them about themselves. She never told us anything, it was she sat and asked how do you feel about that and how are you doing since our last visit.
Ok, no ranting, too early in the morning!!!
Keep up the great work Bill
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Bill, I'm so happy for you. I know that you will make a full recovery from this and things will move on into blissful harmony for the rest of your life.
I'm thinking of you and smiling at your success. Take care. Tootles
Bill, had to do some hunting to find your new thread! Wooooo Hooo I am sooo happy for you and your wife....I'll sneak out of my thread over at newcomers from time to time and check up on your progress...it gives me so much hope and I get so excited for you! Not to mention some how or other you have a way of making me smile or laugh...this time it was your title...and I agree with whoever it was that said, what does it matter if there are parts left over if you don't need them anymore? Great thought...maybe those are the parts that were causing the problems... Keep up the greet DBing....Good luck and God Speed on your path to personal And marital bliss...
Hey y'all! Pam, Karen, Alaska, thanks for the support! I've been having trouble making it on the board much here the last couple of days, things are getting busy.
So, I'm home today, W is off at scrapbooking camp. Have a looooong list of things I want to get done (now, am I trying to impress W by doing so many things around the house? Maybe...) She left me a couple of messages at work before she left, saying how much she loves me and all - I guess I'm starting to believe this is for real, that the other shoe isn't going to suddenly fall.
Really processing a lot of the stuff my C has been talking about too, thoughts, emotions, feelings, etc. and the source of a lot of my anxiety. I think I'm starting to figure a lot of things out about myself (without going into a lot of detail here).
Took the boys to the zoo this morning. One of them had a meltdown and wanted to run off, so I hoisted him up on my shoulders - wouldn't you know it, the little guy ripped off my hat and threw if over the fence. Two-year-olds, I tell ya.
So, not a lot going on with me - just a lot of processing. Going to catch up on some other threads -
Bill, Glad to see things are falling in place for you . Man it's inspirational. It's like one of those prison movies where one guy tries to escape and makes it over the wall and the rest of the inmates go crazy- well i'm going crazy for ya. I read your sitch and it makes me want to work harder. Thanks for the posts. I hope it continues on the right path. Well have a good weekend. Johnny
Thanks man! I'm glad to be a source of hope - I feel very fortunate. I do believe that we all can create a better relationship than we had. Seems like I started married life without any real idea as to what I was doing - I think that once we give it some real attention we can turn it around.
Yeah, it's going to be a long road, but I'm so excitecd to envision how things are going to be! Man, all those little things, and bigs things too, that really stood in our way of having a better relationship - it's going to be a lot of work, but it's going to be worth it. - Bill
Hey, Bill. Great of you to keep boys and let her get away to scrapbooking camp. Bet she is really appreciating you for this! Got great image of hat flying away into fenced in area with lions and tigers and bears, oh my! While two year old grins with impish delight! See, you make me smile! Keep up the great work! You are inspiring lots of us here! Bet you get some extra special appreciation from that wife of yours when she comes back relaxed and refreshed from her weekend away...don't expect it...but enjoy it if it happens!
Not to hijack your thread but could you please check Ogda's thread . He is doing very well so far and it looks like his W might be wavering on the D, but I think you may give him some practical advice. He has the right attitude and lots of ideas, but your pov is as usual appreciated.
Thanks
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
