If I may offer one last comment, update your signature line by removing the negative stuff in it, at the moment it has 4 lines that remind you of stuff you are best off forgetting.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
Having thought long and hard about what I want to achieve and the energy that is needed around me to succeed, I have decided to disconnect from this forum.
It is not a reflection on anything or anyone here, I simply see my next step forward is not to be active in, or even monitor, this wonderful community for the foreseeable future and potentially forever.
It did cross my mind to simply stop posting, knowing that the world we live in would continue on, but that would have been rude and thoughtless, none of you deserve that as you have been so kind.
I wish everyone all the very best in their sitch's and thank, from the bottom of my heart, those who have posted on my threads, your insight, support and guidance has been invaluable to me.
The path I have chosen will get my W back into my life and a new M with her will happen, that I am certain of, despite the amount of work and time that it will take.
The road ahead for all of us is good if we stick to what our intuition tells us and keep on a path that is right for us.
Regardless of how we feel, pushing against our sitch's will make it worse, acceptance and gratitude are the keys to a happy and fulfilling life.
Be well and do what is right for you, always.
Avanti
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
I wish you the best of wishes. Thank you for pushing me to set goals and make my plan. I have no doubt a bright and happy future awaits you. (((Hugs)))
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
I wish you all the best in your new life, Avanti. And thank you for your help in my sitch. R
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
If ever you wonder what happened to Avanti, all is very well, I am a happy, loving, grateful and accepting man who has a bright future in front of him that is all going to plan.
My intuition was what led me away from this site as I believed there was something else beyond what all of the wonderful things you were achieving here and I found it. Just type Larry Billotta into Google and watch his videos. If they call to you, then follow your intuition, if they don't that's OK you need to be ready to accept and be influenced by what he is saying.
If there is one final piece of advice I would offer it is that the answer does not lie in your sitch, or your behaviour or that of you W or H.
All the very best to you DB'rs, you are a great bunch of people and have wonderful lives ahead of you, regardless of how you may feel today.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
Avanti, Nice to read that your doing well. I'll check out the videos. I miss you and your wisdom. Drop in from time to time and let us know how your doing. Best wishes
