My H was diagnosed with Low testosterone 6 months or so ago and started taking injections. I think this is when the changes started and maybe threw him into the MLC. he dropped the bomb on me 1/6. I was just curious if anyone here had any experience with testosterone replacement. He did improve after taking it but now he's angry more and his red blood cell count was high, they had him go donate blood and stop taking the shots for a few weeks, now he's back on them. I think he has an imbalance. He started smoking again shortly after starting the testosterone shots after we both worked so hard to quit. He kept that secret for a long time. He started flirting more and told me he almost didn't come home so that he could have a PA with a coworker. He's moving out tomorrow. I'm letting him go and following all the sandi's rules but was just curious if there's any others here with a similar thing going on.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
TL72: this is interesting; my husband also was diagnosed with low testosterone and has been taking a replacement. You could argue that that is potentially when the trouble started, but hard to nail down the timing. But I think it is a relevant issue. The sad thing, is I see nothing that can be done about the situation. He already left me. Already introduced the kids to other woman. It is surreal.
M 20 yrs me 47 H 51 s11 d8
BD 10/8/13 H Moved out 11/30/13 OW slept over with children Dec '13 OW moved in w/H Jan '14
sorry I had started a separate thread for this, didn't mean to confuse things, still learning these boards
dxw689 - exactly, it is sad, nothing can be done. Mine has left me now too. I just keep going over it and over it in my head trying to figure it out and this was something that I think plays a role. I know it doesn't matter and I have no control and can't change any of it but didn't stop my curiosity. I just have to wait it out and see if works his way through it, anything is possible. This wasn't one of the side effects the doctor told us about .
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
Exactly about the side effect thing: But I really do wonder if it has something to do with it. It helps to see someone else note the same thing. Sorry to see that your timeline was as quick as mine. Best to you for managing this process.
M 20 yrs me 47 H 51 s11 d8
BD 10/8/13 H Moved out 11/30/13 OW slept over with children Dec '13 OW moved in w/H Jan '14
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