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TTD, I just meant it would be best to just end the A, not drag it out "trying to end the relationship." smirk

Or as Yoda says. "Try? There is no try. Only do!" laugh


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Actually, I think her words where "working on ending the R." Either way... yuck.


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MH, I think you were perfectly fair suggesting cold turkey on ending the R. There isn't room in a M for 3 people and while there is an OP, there is little to no chance for reconciling.

Stay strong. We've got your back smile.


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ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks
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So, long after I promised NQ I was off FaceBook and going to bed.... I couldn't sleep and just popped in and noticed W online.

Me:
I can't sleep anymore. I didn't do any real work for 2 days.

W:
I know me neither which doesn't help with the piles of work. And whether is seems like it I miss you and the cats all the time. And am truly sorry.

Me:
I don't want to feel like a 2nd choice if something else didn't/doesn't work out. frown

W:
That's not how it is. I've realized for awhile.

Head and heart in spin-cycle. confused


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Text this morning: "I want u to know I ended it with him yesterday and I want u to find it in your heart to forgive me. Take it one day at a time."


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That's a baby step. Or at least an attempt to crawl. wink


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I think I need to get back to some decluttering. smile

But first, I have to do the dishes!


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The dishes are done, man! Bonus points if you know the movie. laugh


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Well, decluttering will keep your mind occupied LOL smile


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Closing the door and changing the locks
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