Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
And your words...I agree 100 percent. For me it has always been an issue of fear...I remember you addressed that to me when I first arrived here.
I think I can see the step I need to take. I have been sitting with it for a few days now. Its always the thought of my kids that holds me back. I want to stand for my kids, but move forward for myself. I really thought I was doing that.
But I guess I wasn't. I think see it now though. I need to really stop caring what he is doing and thinking. It is really out of my control and if he chooses to leave us so be it.
Thank you LITB. (((((( )))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
I feel pretty good about my decision not to move to Dubai. :-)
I need to return the focus to me and my kids now. Like LITB said, and I agree, he can probably sense me as much as I sense him. And I want to detach from that.
Thank you always for your love and support xxxx
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Yes of course we are all very attuned to our spouses after years, as I have said in my posts, I have recently started spelling everything out very clearly because after years of miscommunication we read into innocuous statements all the time. So I really like that you are saying what you feel and why. That is a very healthy thing to do. Must have been the wine on the blanket
Great advice Vero. It would be nice if the higher power could talk to us. Lol
You will get there Busting. Unfortunately back slides seem to be part of the course.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
Ruby the wine on the blanket always helps!!!!!! Thank you again kind one. I love your energy. :-)
VERA!!!!!! ITS SO GOOD TO SEE YOU BACK!!!! I swear to God I was just thinking about you this morning wondering where you are and how you are. Really missed you ((((( )))))
Vero-I loved the prayer. Thank you :-) And it is such good advice.
Thanks SS.. how are you? Will come have a look. (((( ))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
