Wow, as posted in the Newcomers forum it's been a little of 6 months, but seems like 6 years. I truly think that Retrouvaille and dialogue saved our marriage.
Right now, W and I are beginning our new marriage together after being together for 22 years. God has performed a miracle on us. It won't be easy all the time, but I have learned to be a better man through all of this and for that I'm grateful!
W and I are going on a vacation this week and it should be great. I'll post more later, but thanks to all at DB for your support. I wouldn't have made it without all of you and your advice/experience. Later, J
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
Since last post we spent a week on vacation together. It went really well and things are very good for us now. We've missed some dialogues, but talk a lot about things and pray together often, so I think it's ok. It's almost like I got a new wife or the alien decided to go back home from her body. Cannot really describe it any other way, but want to keep positive.
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
We are celebrating our 15th anniversary tomorrow. Things have been good, thanks to DB and Retrouvaille, which saved our marriage. We went to 1 post session dinner, but felt too much like the "kids" in class that were there, so I don't know if we'll be back, but it was good for us. There is always hope! J
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
