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Finding new MC? Or wait #2241182 04/27/12 02:01 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435 S someguy1233 OP Member
OP someguy1233 Member S Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435	I have no idea what subforum this general question should be posted in! Does MC have a purpose when one person is uncertain about the M and doesn't feel like trying to work things out? The last MC said there isn�t much she can do for our situation since my W is uncertain and unwilling to do any "homework" because she doesn't know if she wants to make our M work. Is there a different type of MC with different approach that can be taken? If so, how is this type of MC identified? M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done

Re: Finding new MC? Or wait someguy1233 #2241190 04/27/12 02:37 PM
Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 127 Georgia A AprilT Member
AprilT Member A Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 127 Georgia	SomeGuy have you tried IC? There is not much you can do if your W is unsure or unwilling to work on things with a MC.

Re: Finding new MC? Or wait AprilT #2241245 04/27/12 07:19 PM
Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 96 F fightingforit Member
fightingforit Member F Joined: Mar 2012 Posts: 96	Do you have a DB coach? M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place I do not want to have regrets

Re: Finding new MC? Or wait fightingforit #2241596 04/29/12 08:21 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435 S someguy1233 OP Member
OP someguy1233 Member S Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435	Originally Posted By: fightingforit Do you have a DB coach? I do now. We agreed no MC at this point. The only "decision" that could be made is the decision for her to leave. Otherwise, she's still here and is still married. M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done

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