Living with a WAW while going through a D part II

[Rick1963]

I asked W for a copy of her car registration this morning. Her L is asking for it. She got pissy and asked for mine. Said sure said that her L wants it. I am cooperAting with The D so I don't get it. Yesterday I threw out stuff from the garage she seemed annoyed. This D is not going to be fun.

[sunshine76]

Hey Rick, somedays it truly feels like you are damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Try to hang in there and stay out of the line of fire.

[jbnati]

Happy New Year, Rick!

I'm also glad you didn't say anything negative about your W to your D. I know it can be hard to avoid.

I'm curious, what does your L say about this stuff you have to get for your W's L?

This D is not going to be fun for your W, either. You have yourself in a better place now. Keep that momentum going.

[Valeska19]

I dont understand why you are asking instead of your L... that is his job correct?

Remember about how 25 said that L's are good because they get made out to be the bad guy. Make them the bad guy!

[Rick1963]

Hey Val the documents are for her L. It is financial disclosures. My L asked for similar stuff so I was wondering why she got annoyed. Hers is asking for more cause she has more assets than I do. Her L is trying to protect her client but it is pretty clear cut 50/50.

Today I thought why man does stuff to other man that are hurtful or uncaring. My 1st job out of grad school was on an oncology floor. One of my patients had full blown AIDS. I think he had a serious pneumonia and was hospitalized. His family never visited him. He was there for months. He own a group home for homelesS man The first and last time I saw and met his W and D was when
they wanted him to sign a check so they could cash it. Never saw them again. He died on my floor. I believe the doctors informed the family h that e died.
A couple of weeks later I get a call from the mourgue about the body? I call family and they tell me what ever? So I arrange his burial did it through Medicaid so I don't even know what or where they buried him. Pretty [censored] up if u ask me.

[Rick1963]

Brinnging all requested paper work to my L this Friday. I am told that our court date is sometime in March. I almost feel nothing anymore.

Last night we all had dinner and talked about politics and the GOP primaries. All seemed normal W even laughed at my jokes and asked me questions about what I thought. It is like hanging out with the person who is going to inject you with a lethal dose on death row? Pretty weird stuff.

[antlers]

Just keep on detaching. It will benefit you in every way...there is no downside to it. Regardless of how things go, detaching will benefit YOU.

[leopoldstotch]

Don't want to hijack Ricks thread but how does one detach from a WAW when you still live with them,share the same bed and she tells you her whereabouts and she wants to know yours? I find it very odd.

[sunshine76]

Hey Rick, for some reason lethal injection sounds more humane than divorce to me today.

I hope that you are taking care of yourself ((( )))

[antlers]

The same way they detach from you when they're living with you! All WAW detach while they're living with the LBS...that's how they're able to walk away! They detach!