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#2175283 08/08/11 03:29 AM
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W returned from weekend away with GFs.

I spent all weekend w/ S and D.

When she returned I realized there is nothing there.

I've come to my end and can now grieve the loss of my M.

Now to pick up the pieces and put my life back together.


M 38
W 50
S 9, D 6
T 12 M 10
W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront
W's 2nd EA 6/2010
Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010
MC 2/2011 - 3/2011
W bomb dropped 4/2011
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OK... take the time that you need to grieve...

And then, what's the plan... man...?

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For starters we need to agree on a plan for sharing the kids. A "nice" way of saying custody. I also picked up a second job at a place really love. This will not only help my mind an spirit but also help with finances.

The new school year starts in two weeks so it's back to work. I neglected to say I'm a teacher an so is my wife. So that will keep me busy.

I attend church regularly with my children and intend to start attending Al-Anon meetings.

Just a start.


M 38
W 50
S 9, D 6
T 12 M 10
W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront
W's 2nd EA 6/2010
Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010
MC 2/2011 - 3/2011
W bomb dropped 4/2011
Nothing filed or done
Joined: Mar 2011
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Good stuff... build from that...


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