Here is latest e-mail from wife. I have been dim for 3-4 weeks. We have occassional contact. Wife move out Jan 1.

I don't have a problem being friends and i think for the kids sake, it would be best if we find a way to get to that point. That being said, I do not want to lead you on and make you think there will be some reconciliation. You need to find your own way and maybe I'm wrong but i don't think being alone is something you would want long term. you have to figure out what makes you happy.

I think wife is confused and is still trying to push me away any way she can.

Sorry can't link my previous posts so quick info.
T-28 yrs, M-22 yrs 3 kids
Bomb - March 2010
Odd behavior started June 2009
Moved out Jan 1 2011