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Ok went to a birthday party with my w last night. On the way there she reinerated that she was just riding with me there. Well the party went find a lil interaction between me and my W I just acted normal. She got pretty trashed and we left about 1 am. Well before leaving we passionately kissed in the bathroom and she says we gotta go so we left. Well we hadn't been on the road 5 min and her pants were off and said she wanted me. We stopped in the woods and had passionate sex rather been in a bed but couldn't wait. I took her home and then went to my house. She texted me today laughing saying she couldn't believe we did that it was crazy. Guess we will see from here


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John... DUDE! You gotta slow down... The two of you seem to feed off one another. The plan is to 180, and rebuild... Not sure how one goes fro no contact to minor talk to sex talk to going to a party and hardly talking yo one another to getting drunk and having sex in the woods...

None of it sounds romantic or loving IMHO...

Is this a 180 of how you were or is it the old John?

Only you know...


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No I used to be all over her at parties last night if she talked to me I talked back but didn't pursue her or stay up under her. That's the 180 from the old me


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Well the night after went slept together she has been texting me saying good night and good morning. She also continues to talk about us sleeping together. I just let her talk and agree. I haven't contacted her all the contact in initiated by her.


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