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What are you doing for V-Day? #2129067 02/10/11 10:26 PM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 903 Benicia, CA A alamo76 OP Member
OP alamo76 Member A Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 903 Benicia, CA	In light of the upcoming day and what some of you know about my situation, should I help my 2yo son pick out some flowers and a card for mom, or not such a good idea? M37, S5 M-7y; T-8y Separated 060410 Wife/son moved 022611 Wife serves d-papers 032011 I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312 Bifurcated 103112

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? alamo76 #2129072 02/10/11 10:43 PM
Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 791 TX R Redo Member
Redo Member R Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 791 TX	I just mailed in a V-card and box of candies for my daughter. In the V-card, i did mention my W's name wishing her too. I did not get her any present though. She's still angry and already is detached and does not want anything from me. I'll give her the space that she so wants right now. I think if you get flowers it might look like pursuing. BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? alamo76 #2129073 02/10/11 10:47 PM
Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 1,905 Northern California & ♪CS♪ Member
♪CS♪ Member & Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 1,905 Northern California	I wish drinking wasn't one of the issues I had to work on. If it wasn't, I would be downing a bottle! BITS Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? alamo76 #2129075 02/10/11 10:55 PM
Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 237 I ironMan Member
ironMan Member I Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 237	What are you getting your other female friends for V-Day? Probably nothing eh? B.I.T.S Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? ironMan #2129089 02/10/11 11:23 PM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 903 Benicia, CA A alamo76 OP Member
OP alamo76 Member A Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 903 Benicia, CA	Originally Posted By: ironMan What are you getting your other female friends for V-Day? Probably nothing eh? You're right -- nadda. M37, S5 M-7y; T-8y Separated 060410 Wife/son moved 022611 Wife serves d-papers 032011 I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312 Bifurcated 103112

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? alamo76 #2129090 02/10/11 11:27 PM
Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 1,307 Canada Q Queen_of_Swords Member
Queen_of_Swords Member Q Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 1,307 Canada	I am having a pedicure and manicure. Then I will go out to the grocery store get some cupcakes with pink and red icing, pick up some lobster tails to cook at home and my children and I will have a love you dinner. Although they might prefer a heart shaped pizza. We'll talk about that! BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? Queen_of_Swords #2129449 02/11/11 10:40 PM
Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 200 B blue2010 Member
blue2010 Member B Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 200	I just heard the pro flowers commercial and was debating the 2 doz mixed for 29.99 because it seems we are piecing but then I went on to think maybe not ..........I could just let the kids buy charms to add to her braclet. I can't say I am in full forgivness she still need to meet transparency and then some. H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? blue2010 #2129451 02/11/11 10:45 PM
Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 76 ON, Canada C Chrysalid Member
Chrysalid Member C Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 76 ON, Canada	i have 4 men coming to my house... band mates.. lol.. i'm secretly hoping one of them brings me something to cheer me up !! but life will go on as normal.. and i'm going to be strong and try and focus on anything but all that the day represents for me. I think it's a very sweet gesture from all of you with children to get your significant others from the kids. Me-41 H-34 T-9 M-8 10/21/10-BOMB 11/01/10-H moves out 01/27/12-H files "Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? Chrysalid #2129461 02/11/11 11:27 PM
Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 29 T Troy999 Member
Troy999 Member T Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 29	I bought her a laptop for Christmas and she would not accept it, its still in my car so for V-day she will get nothing and like it. Me:44 Wife:41 S11: D14 married 20 years bomb 7/25/2010 she filed 7/15/2011 headed for trial in early 2012

Re: What are you doing for V-Day? Troy999 #2129463 02/11/11 11:38 PM
Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,496 2 2stepboogie Member
2stepboogie Member 2 Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,496	Getting my D some flowers! I thought about sending 1 Blue Rose not sure yet BITS

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