A few weeks ago a situation came up were it looked like i had been cheating. my W confrunted me and to my fault instead of telling her the truth i lied. now i have never cheated on her. i did later tell herthe truth but she has in in her head that i have been unfaithful. i have told her everythng and i am trying to be as open as I posable can. She doesnt know what to belive and what to think. I ear that she is done with our marrage. Right now she will not touch me and hardly talks to me. What do I do now?
A few weeks ago a situation came up were it looked like i had been cheating.
Care to elaborate why she thinks so?
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she found a condom that i had used on my self in the toilet. when she comfrunted me about it i lied and said it wasnt mine. i gess i lied decause i didnt know how she would react. i know its stupid and what it looks like and now my marriage that has been shaky for a while in going down in flames. help
No offense but if I were your wife and you gave me that explanation, I wouldn't believe you either.
Please be more specific. Your explanation makes no sense at all. How do you use a condom on yourself?
This one incident can't possibly be a marriage killer. There must be much more to your story. If you can share that with us, we might be able to help you out.
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let just say it was used as self gradifcation. she has acused me of it in the past. but i never have. we have had didstan over that past year. she is very mad and frustrated with me. i never have been with anyone but her. she is very hard to read sometimes. there have been timems i the past were she steped out on me and i forgave her. even time were it apeared to me that she was and she said it wasnt and i chose to belive her. this time i leid to her. and i dont know how to fix the situation. i know what it looks like but as god as my witness i never cheated.
