I think I'm looking into dance of some sort, although she has said she's interested in Karate because she wants to be a superhero when she grows up and all the superheroes know karate. I've also looked at the possibility of piano lessons, but not sure how "into" piano D is right now.
Thus, it is on my list of things to do once the basketball season ends in Februrary.
I feel sorry for all that the men are going thru here. My atty ( a woman) says that the women know how to play this game better than we do and that most men give up at some point (or give out?)
My STBXW has become a 'no' person. Last week she called the police on me because I refused to take my son home, by her demand, from a sleepover playdate that he and I arranged ON MY DAY WITH HIM. He slept over in spite of dropping my daughter off with a squad car in my driveway. That was a boundary I could not let be abused.
If there is an issue with activities, you can't beat doing arts and crafts with them until it's over. I play games with D6. Last night, D6 made me a drawing saying that "I have her heart". I held her for more than a few minutes, told her I love her, and told her how she filled my bucket. EDITED - ADVERTISING is NOT ALLOWED. You must comply with the DivorceBusting.com Board Rules if you would like to continue the privilege of posting here.
fb2...keep going. I am weary too. I am beaten down, confused, tired, emotionally exhausted. Somedays, it is hard to not second guess the type of man I am when the abusive accusations are hurled at me almost on a daily basis. You just have to keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep going. It is your obligation to your kids as a man. Keep going fb2...keep going.
To Kerry....last year I used lead, drilled into the back of the car. I think the tungsten is just another sales technique for us dad's who do PWD. LOLOL.
document every frinkin word those women say..document every action they take against you..
what you do with your child on your visitation(as long as it's not illegal or immoral or does not put the child in danger) is NONE of your ex's business and you and your attorney need to make sure that that is made perfectly clear..
if an ex is being a bitch..then I say be a bigger bitch...
Listening to some of these stories, I'm extraordinarily glad that my XW is not insane and we have a very good relationship still. Occasionally there are things that piss me off, but I figure that being generous with my money and my time if it keeps me out of court and keeps her happy is a good thing.
sooner or later you have to stand up for yourself..I had to deal with insane crap from matthew's mother for 8 years...8 years of having him withheld from me...8 years of having the law called...8 years of him having to see his mom do stupid stuff and me not having the means or gumption to do anyhting about it...
this time around..I take no crap...either it''s fair or I'll bankrupt my ass and her ass taking her back to court...
sometimes you have to make/take a stand...
If I have one piece of good advice to give...it's don't take their crap..if you are being fair and equitable then demand the same from them...
Ventrans of D wars have told me that after many police calls and court appearences these women show a pattern of craziness and loose credibility with the system which is messed up in itself. I used to try to tone down and diffuse these attacks but somtimes they cross the line.
Hopefully this pattern will be of benefit for faithisbelieving in his final stages of his divorce in NY. His STBXW is the poster child for batchit crazy.
