She only says she wants to come back because she can't afford living in her adulterous lifestyle? Too bad. If she can't support her children and her lifestyle then she gets to choose. Simple. She can't have both. Make her pick the OM or her children.
You let her move back into the house and it's game over and she has won. She will not gain respect for you, she will continue the A with no remorse at all and she'll be carrying your nuts in her purse and whenever you get 'out of line' she will give them a twist to get you in line.
I know that's harsh, but she is nuts! If she truly feels that it's not fair that she has to give up her adultery for her children then she's no kind of mother to those kids.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
