WOw, I can't believe it is 8 months already. I think change will be good. A new sofa will really change the look and it is a good way to start a new season. Yeah, we are suppose to get 3-5 inches and you guys are going to get the most of it. Blah! I was ready for spring....not more winter!!
Hope you did not get to snowed in today. Have to work this weekend, so much fun in this weather. You up to anything next weekend? Going to be down your way for drill. I will check up on you tomorrow. I look on the alternative universe sometimes, but have not caught up with you online.
I agree that some change will do you good. Take care and talk with you later.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Hey how are you? I just had ice on the car but S16 and I went to a movie and then late lunch. Went to see "Watchmen". It was pretty good but a little too bloody for my tastes. S16 is experiencing his first crush and she works at the theater. It is certainly interesting to watch.
I have bookclub next weekend and my parents are taking the boys to spend the night on Saturday. If you don't mind me having the girls, I could meet up with you Saturday. Let me know.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
The girls will be fine. I'll get ahold of you somewhere later this week to find a place to meet up.
Hello Karen. I've been doing pretty good. I hope everything with you is going good. My weekend has not been to bad. I am just tired of driving around in the snow and sleet. Today was a whole lot better. I hope your weekend was good and you had time to enjoy yourself.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
I seem to still be in my funk. Kept focusing on ex for some reason. I do so much better when I don't. I keep having the little voice in my head that says what if he is right about me? What if no one else wants me? Am I so awful? I know better but when one is in a funk, the little voice likes to come out and I feel even worse.
Something about the planets I think. I guess they will all line up nicely eventually.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Kat, I realize we have never met but I think you are one of the sweetest, nicest, and most beautiful ladies. There is no doubt in my mind that you will find love, and love will find you. GOd makes no mistakes. He made you perfect.
I know you are in a funk. You know I have been in one, too. It helps to share with our DB family, doesn't it? Just to get it out. Hang in there, and keep working out of the funk. Your kids will help ya with that. Maybe yenko will too.
I keep having the little voice in my head that says what if he is right about me? What if no one else wants me? Am I so awful? kat
Kat, I asked my C the same thing this week!!! When H said no none will ever want me what if he's right? Someone that close to you (well how they used to be) says stuff and it's hard to just blow it off. One thing I think though is if our H's found women to love them (us and OWs) we shouldn't have problems finding someone either. Plus, what kind of person says stuff like that to someone??? I would never even think of saying something like that to a person; we will find more loving Rs in the future I'm sure!!!
I keep having the little voice in my head that says what if he is right about me? What if no one else wants me?
Kat hes not right. He had the best thing that ever happened to him and because he is a f*cktard, he het her go. You are one of the most kind, sweet, loving, giving people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and that DAM you were married to took it for granted. Consider the source and you'll know hes just running his mouth. I understand totally about being in a funk, I've been there for a while too. It'll get better. You are way too awesome to give his BS another thought.
((((hugs)))) Trust me on this one.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I keep having the little voice in my head that says what if he is right about me? What if no one else wants me? Am I so awful? kat
Kat, I asked my C the same thing this week!!! When H said no none will ever want me what if he's right? Someone that close to you (well how they used to be) says stuff and it's hard to just blow it off. One thing I think though is if our H's found women to love them (us and OWs) we shouldn't have problems finding someone either. Plus, what kind of person says stuff like that to someone??? I would never even think of saying something like that to a person; we will find more loving Rs in the future I'm sure!!!
You'll both be very -- ahem! -- marketable.
Seriously.
I haven't met either one of you, but just from the way you each write and your values that you express on here, I find it very attractive.
Hope you're doing well! How's your weekend been?? Karen