Happy used to be anniversary! Funny things happen on days like that.
To me her actions sound like the beginning of spring and a seed is planted. It might be a dandelion, flower, weed.. or just some weird thing that grows green.
It's a start of something (good, bad or indifferent) from her and just a bit of disturbed dirt for you.
*hugs*
You're right it is and that's the way I take it. This has been going on since mid-November. If it's simple we get to a point where we effectively communicate with each other and nothing more then that's something I'll be glad to have. Basically, I have had zero expectations for a while now. What I would like at a minimum is that we communicate effectively with one another. If anything that will make parenting easier. (Notice I didn't say co-parenting because that is redundant if you ask me. We are parents just not married parents any more so it's still parenting.)
Back to that seed idea, it is something and I won't spend time trying to analyze it or influence towards some expectation I have. Doing so always seems to backfire. I'll take what I get and be happy I got that. Its definitely more than I had before.
If anything though, I got a pretty good chuckle last night and laughter is always good!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
