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[john95]

Before he got married to you did you feel any hesitation from him on being married, did he say anything? I did in mine but convinced her it would be okay but it ended up wrong.


Hmm I see, just my opinion but you might want to be open to finding somebody else as well if you are ready. Try the things you have learnt, also I think don't try to make your son hate his dad just try to explain the phases he is going through.

I think some things my wife didn't like were that I was to attached to her needed her to much. It's sad but the more you need someone the less they want you I'm not sure if that is with every couple. So one thing I plan to do is still stick with my friends after possibly another marriage or even when dating, gives the other time to breath. If they are the curious type wanting to know where you are going take them along 1 time or tell them exactly where you are(maybe they were hurt in the past and just needs to build trust). I also read by being more open on where u are etc. it also prevents ppl from doing bad things.

[john95]

Hi, I also have been reading about one case where spouse comes back after walking away. But spuse that was walked away by becomes resenntfull saying they waitied for so long didn't do anything. I feel if you already are not is start living your life again, go to classes if u want work out do whatever u want but like at the same time pray for the best. Either way you win u know what i'm sayin.

[June21]

Thanks John,
I hear you.

[john95]

Hi June,
Hope everything is going well. Just wanted to let you know that i've been working out and feeling bette. It was really difficult at beginning but it's so much easier now.