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#1610677 10/02/08 07:25 PM
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Okay folks, the showdown is next Tuesday, Oct 7th. 9 am.

I am sure I will be in need of drinks on that day.

So here is a song by Don Henley to start off my thread....


I got the call today
That I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old, true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you'd found someone

And I thought of all the bad luck,
and the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you

What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
and beg for something more?

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again

I've been tryin' to get down
to the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
and my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about...forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

Ah...these times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
and people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age?

Ah...the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things - we kill I guess...
Ohh pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us
you know it doesn't keep me warm

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
And the more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I'd figured out
I have to learn again

I've been trying to get down
to the heart of the matter
But everything changes
and my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about...forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if, you don't love me anymore

There are people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
You better put it all behind you baby; cause' life goes on
If you keep carryin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside, baby

I've been trying to get down
to the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
and my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me

I've been tryin' to get down
to the heart of the matter
Because the flesh will get weak
and the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if, you don't love me...
Forgiveness (yeah)
Forgiveness (baby)
Forgiveness (ohh)
Forgiveness (ahh yeaaahhh)
Forgiveness (ohh)
Forgiveness
Even if, you don't love me anymore...

So....what is going on, peeps?

Love to all,
Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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YAY first

A heminway please.

ANd AYE DIOS MIO telemundo rocks!


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I am going to need at least 3 dirty vodka martinis.


....sigh.


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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With all going on, I havent kept up, is this for your D?
sorry if you have mentioned it and I am guessing it is.

Like everyone told me here ( although I ended up not having to go to court) think of all of us sitting behind you, silently cheering you on! You have our cyber support!!!!
You can do it and you will come out of that courtroom w/ your head held high cause yu can!!! and your life will be wonderful!!


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Nope for temporary orders only...he is a pain in the ass though.

I hope that I won't have to go to court again...that we can settle everything in mediation but who knows with this clown.



Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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clown thats what I call my ex!

I ended up not going to court, although I had an outfit all ready lol
I think a lot of times it ends that way, its less $$ and really , I wonder if there is a need. Everything is usually ironed out ahead of that.

Good Luck anyway and let us know Hopefully I can still read your thread lol


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hugs and kisses to you, Vali.

Have all the dirty martinis you want, but after... smile.

good luck. tu eres una mujer mas bella.

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Hi Vali,
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I hope that I won't have to go to court again
I hope it for you as well. Good luck next Tuesday.

Have a nice week-end. (((HUGS))) xxx

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Hey V
Are you back? How did it go?


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Karen, it is next Tuesday....the 7th. Blech.

It will be fine I am sure...I plan on wearing really high heels! LOL! And of course, a fabulous suit! and looking all business.



Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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