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Gypsy, thanks. Yes, I know I should stop worrying about this issue right now.

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Originally Posted By: Teddy
Make a quiet entrance and exit. Sit on the back row.

In and out, if it makes you feel better to go.


Teddy,

I disagree. I would go in, talk to the family of the deceased and then leave. Make your presence known.... I would ignore OM/OW and any drama..... It is about doing the right thing (again) and being the bigger person...

RMG


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RMG.. I would try to talk to the family (ie his parents and siblings) but it's possible they would refuse to talk.

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RMG.. I would try to talk to the family (ie his parents and siblings) but it's possible they would refuse to talk.


deva,

That is another case where you have to do what you believe in your heart is right. You doing what is right is the most important thing.

Others can act as they choose. You can only control yourself.

In my life, I try my best to do the right thing... Whether it is hard or not.... I do not want to look back with regrets....

Take Care,

RMG


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Good advice, RMG! I need to keep reminding myself of this principle.

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