I haven't read your thread other than the last couple posts, but why would you want to sleep with him? He's cheating/cheated on you with mulitple women and if you sleep with him too he has no reason to stop.
Not to mention the possible diseases he may be exposed to.
Think long and hard before jumping into bed with him.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
I haven't read all of your posts and just have a minute. No, don't give up hope as long as you feel there is a chance.
You feel as if you can't live without him because you haven't tried to go and do things without him. What interests do you have? Join a book club, go to a movie, get together with your friends and have dinner, go window shopping or actually shopping if you can afford it. You have put too much emphasis on him in your life and not enough on you. I was guilty of that too, so don't feel bad in any way...just do what you need to to change it.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Should i give up hope ??? why do i feel like i cant live without him
I agree with everything Kat said. I don't think you need to give up hope. Sometimes hope was what got me through the early part of this for me!
I agree you need to really work on GAL. That has been so important for me, and through doing that I've made some friends that have really helped me get through this and realize I can live without him. Friends here have also helped too. Keep posting when you feel like you need to or want. I practically post my grocery list sometimes! Karen
I thought i was over this an he became so paranoid abt me that i thought he stoped cheating
i started handling everything with confidence but now i feel i am loosing confidence so fast and am so worried about what he is doing again its horrible
Karen