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Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring poet #1765119 05/09/09 05:33 PM
Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 4,542 California G Grace_O Member
Grace_O Member G Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 4,542 California	poet, Sweetie, you're putting too much into what he's thinking and what he's doing. If there is a problem with him coming into the house you may need legal advice. I know how hard it is to break that cycle. Perhaps an activity that would occupy more time and energy? What do you like? What have you always wanted to do or learn to do? HUGS

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring Grace_O #1768081 05/15/09 02:28 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii Member
Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	I have discovered that my W has left OM. So, after a period to let her process that, I am doing something different: I am going to see her. After 3 1/2 years. David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring Tamashii #1768094 05/15/09 02:47 PM
Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,455 P plentyhope Member
plentyhope Member P Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,455	Good for you! Ed Wheat does say in his book that a man should let his wife know that he wants her (and only her). Do pray for and about this visit. PH's Thread

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring plentyhope #1768109 05/15/09 03:27 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii Member
Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	I've read the Ed Wheat book until it's worn out! I have to get another one. He says, "Ultimate love pursues the beloved." It must be done with faith and love. You can bet I'll be in the prayer closet for a while... David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring Tamashii #1768253 05/15/09 06:50 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	(((((((((David))))))))) Praying!!!!!!!!!! There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring brandnewday #1768331 05/15/09 08:45 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii Member
Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	BND, I've been so down today. Thank you being here and picking me up! David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring Tamashii #1768336 05/15/09 08:58 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	David, WE need to make a plan..... Nothing impulsive. Lots of prayer first. Let me know when you are ready. (((((hugs))))) There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring brandnewday #1768345 05/15/09 09:33 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Tamashii Wow. You got some extra prayers in that closet from me. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring brandnewday #1768765 05/17/09 12:54 AM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii Member
Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	Yes WE will. You have been my rock, and I miss your counsel and friendship. I am ready. Of course, the prayers have stated. I haven't forgotten the Apple Farm... Jack, you jump in at will also. David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: Balancing Going Dark & Mirroring Tamashii #1768767 05/17/09 12:59 AM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii Member
Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	It's good to be back here... David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

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