Trusting I think the same as SirPrizeMe, this is a final gift from your mother. I also think it may have freed your H from his own grief for his own mother. Not completely of course as that never happens but enough for him to begin to establish healthy relationships again. Only the two of you can know if things can be put right or if they have gone too far for you ever to be in each other's lives as spouses again. However now is not the time for those decisions now is the time for you to heal.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thanks for asking. I am doing o.k. I am emotionally drained, but that is nothing new since this MLC stuff started.
How are you?
I heard from my kids today. They are at Disney with OW and ex. I hope she forgets to use her sunscreen.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Kids have been texting me a lot. It sounds like they are having a good time in Disney. I have not heard from ex at all though. I have a feeling OW is monitoring him like a hawk.
Kids get home on Tuesday. Can't wait to kiss their little faces.
Thanks everyone for all the support regarding the loss of my mom.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I can't wait for you to see your kids--lots of love and hugs is the best thing you will get when you see them.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
