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#1569449 08/25/08 02:55 AM
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Hello all...I have moved over from MLC...

Counter filed on my STBX on Monday AUG-18th. He filed in July and just forgot to tell me...whatever...

So, found out my STBX had a kid with the OW...so, just had to stop and save myself from this mess...this is very, very, very hard...I have wonderful support network that consists of family, friends, therapists, etc....

So from now on, I will be here...


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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Welllll, I love your thread title!!!

Sorry that you're going through this but you'll find great support and good friends here so......welcome to SURVIVING!!!!

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hey vali

sorry you are here but glad to see you again

how are things going

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Fig, sorry I am here too, but hey, that is the way of the world and I am sure I will come out fine...

SO many revelations this past summer...i don't know if I can take anymore...LOL!

So, I'll be hanging out here for a bit...

Hope things are well with you!

V


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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QOE, yeah got some really good friends here...so I am sure I will like it!

I hate that my life is a telenovela but one day it will be boring as well...well, maybe NOT boring but this rollercoaster ride will be over and life will be great!

Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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Hey Vali, sorry to see you hear darlin.

Lots of good folks over here, I know you know a lot of them already.....



Ian


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XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09

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I haven't been here long, but wanted to welcome you. I am so sorry.

The people on here are wonderful.

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Quote:
STBX on Monday AUG-18th. He filed in July and just forgot to tell me...whatever...

So, found out my STBX had a kid with the OW...


Wow, just never seizes to amaze me these WA. They seem to forget a lot dont they?
I'm sorry for your pain Valentine.

also welcome, this is for sure a place to heal and heal you will.


Be Happy for this Moment,
This Moment is your Life


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Ian, considering the man my STBX has turned out to be...I am NOT sorry I am here...

My life will be so much better w/o that piece of trash in my life.

I know there are good folks over here...how wonderful!

Vali


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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Karen, could be that they don't 'forget' seems like they don't wanna be the bad guys/gals...they avoid anything that is remotely taking responsibility regarding their current marriages...

They just move forward without finishing up what they started...and they don't learn and they do it over and over and over again...we'll see how long it takes for him to do it to this new girl and his kid. Trust me, a man with his mental capacity, won't be long before the shine wears off and he's off to a new gal. They always seem to do that. Lucky for me, I will be long gone and never have to worry about him again.

Yay!!!!

Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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