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Hiya Sugar.

I miss you.

YAY a birthday party, with bubbles. I have to admit i love sidewalk chalk. The kids get so mad at me, b/c i use it all almost.

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Congrats on your new job. Look at you, working girl. Love it.

I am so proud of you. I hope the X stays nice and cordial.

Kiss those babies. It is cold and rainy here in Joisey today. Be glad you and the lovies are not here.

As for Boston, blech. I know let it go, let it go. You are doing so well at it.

I have to get back on track with it too.

Come to NJ to visit and we will all take a trip to Boston.

Luv ya


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Shades, glad to hear things are looking up for you. Shades, you are a nice looking lady, someone who will really appreciate you is out there for you!

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Hi W2S, Lissie and Braveheart! Thanks for stopping by I love to hear from you guys!


W2S,

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Giving up diminishes us. Letting go empowers us


This is so true!

Also, I like your view of karma better. \:\)


Lissie,

I miss you too!

I wish you were here, it was sunny and hot today and the kids LOVED the bday party. I had pails with their names on them, they filled them with water from the water park and dumped it all over each other, play games and just had a great park day. You and M & M could have come!

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Congrats on your new job. Look at you, working girl. Love it.


Thank you! I'm looking forward to it. \:\)

Braveheart,

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I certainly hope so!! Thanks!

Well, after the party my whole family came over to swim and hang out. Loads of fun. D6 got a mermaid flipper for the pool, boy did she think that was so cool!

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend.

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Shades

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Hi Shades,

Of course your kids loved the bday party! They have a FANTASTIC Mom!

Glad to hear your doing pretty good.


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Shades, congratulations on your job. You are a wonderful woman, and your husband is a fool. But that is old news!

I hope that life continues to be wonderful - you sound terrific.

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Shades, wow...sounds like the most wonderful, fun, joyful birthday party a girl could dream of !! You are such a sweet and caring mom to your girls !
I agree with Angelica that your H is a fool not to see it. Then again, there is no cure for these fools, we just have to get on with it and make the very best of our time here, and love and cuddle our kids, for it is THEY that are missing out.

Take care x


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Cinders and Shades - I think one great parent is fine - a wonderful example and role model for your kids.

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Hi Mrs, Angelica & Cinders!!!

Wow you guys are the best. I have missed you. \:\)

Thank you for your kind words and we had another great day. My gf and her kids came to swim and BBQ. Loads of fun!

Tomorrow is my first day at the new job. I am looking forward to it. Although, it is a new position and everyone I met has been SO HAPPY o have me coming on board I'm wondering what I'm getting into...LOL!! Whatever it is I'm sure I can handle it. I mean really, look at what we've all been through here, ya know??

I know most of you that have posted here are not on the boards that much. But I wanted to say a very special thanks to you all becuase without each one of you I would not have made it through the last two years. You have touched my life so deeply and I love you all.

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Shades, I am sure you were a most wonderful woman pre MLC, but the additional grace that you have come into during this has added to you. I am not surprised that everyone is happy to have you on board. We are none of us living the life we expected to have, but you have handled everything that has been thrown at you so well that you will shine in whatever you undertake.

My vicar/pastor told me that I would look back at all of this later on and see it for a period of great spiritual and emotional growth, and I am coming to believe he is right, although I would never have signed up for it!

It is a privilege to have come to know you and so many others on these boards


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Thank you dear A!

How are you doing?

Love,
Shades

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