Hi Guys, Just saying Hello...Theres been so much happen so quick that I haven't hardly had time to think. I told you that I got roses on Valentines Day and for our 26th wedding anniversary. but on the same day as our anniversary he wants the seperation agreement signed so we can get on with our lifes. I closed on my house so that is one step in a direction. He does send confusing vibes....Oh well he said we needed to do this divorce to get closure. He keeps telling me how bad he has treated me and that it was wrong and I need to move ahead. He calls and tries to make sure I am heading in a positive direction.
DRAMA DRAMA All the while he still has the OW who he says he can get rid of in a phone call....I think he just tells me that to mess with my mind. I just have to be strong and keep my head and move ahead. Isn't the saying that you have to turn loose of something and if it comes back it was meant to be is not it wasn't..... For the last few days I have gotten Private phone calls. I can here a TV and someone there but they hang up. I hate that...
We got a few snow flurries yesterday, but it was 34 so it didn't stick. Mostly the northern part of the state got snow. I live in the central part. I would have loved to have a snow day!!!
For the past two mornings we have been doing standardized testing. It makes for a very long morning, and then the kids are all keyed up from being quiet for so long in the afternoon! I'm definitely ready for the weekend.
Penny, It was nice to get an update from you, we've missed you.
Bob, how about an update from you?
Hugs,
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Yoyo and All, Things are better in that I do have Primary Placement of my children with one day a week and everyother weekend that they spend overnight with STBXPDW. They see her for a couple hours three other afternoons during the week after school. They tend to be brought home late, or a couple hours early as their mother has been scheduling her work time during her visitation times with the kids, in direct violation of the Mediation Agreement. The Personality Disordered never stop. LOL. As the kids have been spending more time at STBPDW's, they are getting a bit shitty when they come home. DD13 often acts like her Passive-Aggresive mother and today she's really pouring it on. I honestly don't like the kids exposed to their mom's world much, as it is totally f**ed up. It's a really sh**y environment over there. I feel bad correcting the behavior they bring home, but it's not acceptable. Just because their damned mother and her friends and family are all f**ed up, doesn't mean the kids should be also. That's it here. When the kids are not in contact with their mom for a few days they are awesome again, polite more considerate, less negative, etc.
I'm back. My trip to Reno went well, except that I couldn't win any money at the casino. But I had a good time and enjoyed meeting a lot of new people.
