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I have been busy with hubby so have not posted in monthes...just a quick update for those who helped me here....

My marriage is GREAT! I bit the bullet and did the jail time for the DWI...only got charged with Reckless Driving and have gotten my license back. My meds are on track...after a brief check in to the hospital...and my marriage is Wonderful! OH, and I'm driving again! Sober now for a year! Quit smoking!

Some of the things I do now....

Page H just now and then when he's at work and say
Have a nice day honey or I just wanted you to know I love you or Hey babe, sure missing you....

Refrain from fighting over small stuff....remember how constant conflict almost drove us to divorce.....

Remember to thank spouse and treat him as I want to be treated

Got a life!

Made new friends.

Joined a gym.

Go to church.
My life has just gotten better and better thanks to db'ing.
Downside? Have to have a hysterectomy for health reasons on Monday....but the upside is that H could not be more supportive.....You see there is a positive in everything if we look for it...this is just a chance for H to pamper me and take care of me!

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Akgal





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Thank you so much for updating. You have REALLY gotten your life as well as your M on track!!!!

I have missed you.

Will be thinking of you on Monday.

{{{Akgal}}}


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Thanks Pam! Hope you are doing well...you deserve to be!

Hugs, Akgal


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Hi there Alaskangal

I've was wondering about you! I am so glad that things are working out between you and H. Hope your S is well too. Did you get that book contract?

Thanks for coming back to tell us about how things are going.



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Congratulations on your year of sobriety!!!

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I love reading about success stories, and this sure sounds like a BIG one.

Good luck with your op on Monday. I have been having health problems too, that may lead me down that road as well. But, that's life, 'eh!

Stay well!


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I will have lots of time to post when I am resting after surgery...will do so then! I'll catch everyone up with what has happened since July.....was it really that long ago that I last posted faithfully? Wow! Well, I'm back...but in a good way.

Things are wonderful here in marriage land!

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WOW AK!! Ya know, I was wondering about you the other day too and had hoped things were going well So glad to hear you got yoru life back on track and the M and everything are doing great. WIll keep you in my prayers re your surgery

Take Care,
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Hello Akgal,

Hope your surgery went well and you are recooperating nicely!


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