The best approach to reconciliation is to go in the opposite direction. Your view on this needs to be "go do your thing, W, do what you need to do in order to find happiness. I'm going to live an amazing life. If you want to be part of it in the future, we'll have to talk about that, but for now I wish you well"
You shouldn't say that to her directly, but everything about the way you react to her and respond to her should say that for you.
Agree. It is about your mindset and your behavior.
Find your happiness (or contentment) without "needing" her to be your partner.
