It all sounds to easy ....but how do you do it?????? How will they notice anything if you are separated living different lives????

Yes your dark....but when you come to the light what and how do they notice changes????
I can sit here and focus on my health, my work, my pride, my respect and let him live his life but how will H know that I've changed?????

Not calling....not caring,,,,
be quiet.....
It all sounds to wonderful....but where to begin to get this man to notice is the problem.....
I printed the whole first thread .....I will try to find the strength.....to focus on me....let him go....but how will he see.....