I refuse to comply with this all for the sake of being a "good father."
Steve_, I may be misreading, but it sounds like your moving would involve giving up custody time and/or subjecting the kids to lots of driving so you can be with this girlfriend.
Originally Posted by Steve_
It will be a short time before her taking these kids "full time" gets old and she needs me to help with them.
Originally Posted by Ginger
You are moving away and leaving the kids with her full time ? !
Originally Posted by Steve_
I will still have them my weekends unless she stops me. In the D papers i get them Saturday-Tuesday, so unless she forces me to change that I wont be. I will still have them my weekends unless she stops me. In the D papers i get them Saturday-Tuesday, so unless she forces me to change that I wont be.
1. If you move, are you giving up Sunday to Tuesday? If no, how will the kids get to school and back? If yes, are you really giving up half your custody with your kids to be with your girlfriend? 2. If you move, how much weekly driving are you subjecting your kids to? 3. If you move and she files a motion to prevent the kids from moving, are you going to return to be with them, or abandon the remainder of your custody time to live with your girlfriend?
